10 Gifts New Moms Want but are Afraid to Ask For

It’s easy for a mom to express joy and gratitude over her new baby—and we all see her happy, optimistic social media updates and her rosy smile.  But there’s more to that new mother than meets the eye.  For new mothers, it can be hard to ask for the things they really want, and often need.  Instead of the adorable baby socks or baby onesies (that may never get worn, because, well, babies grow at all different rates.) – and the needed items are often quite expensive.  That’s why we’ve put together a list of gifts that will really help new moms – and these are the gifts new moms want (but are afraid to ask for.)

10 Gifts New Moms Want but are Afraid to Ask For

1. Furniture

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If you’ve ever created a baby registry before, you know how questionable it can feel to add nursery furniture to the registry knowing that items like cribs and changing tables are difficult for one person to afford to give by themselves. Next time you’re invited to a baby shower, don’t overlook any furniture items listed on the new mom’s baby registry: you, along with family and friends, can pitch in on the cost of nursery furniture together.

2. Bigger ticket baby items

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Other bigger ticket baby items like car-seats, high-quality strollers, and bassinets, are also gifts that new moms might be hesitant to put on their baby registry due to their price tags, even though they’re sincerely in need.When family and friends come together, it’s easy to group-gift the bigger-ticket items, so the new parents—whose budgets are probably already stretched thin—can get safe, quality items they know they can trust.

3. A quality breast pump and supplies

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Busy breastfeeding moms can always use a high-quality breast pump: one they know isn’t going to break down on them right when they need it most. While some hospitals rent breast pumps out to new mothers, it always feels better to own your breast pump, knowing that it’s safe, brand new, and won’t need to be returned later on. Give her one she can keep (especially in the event she chooses to breastfeed longer-term, or might have plans for another baby down the line) and help her out further by providing her with a good stock of breast pump supplies: at least six months’ worth. Consider pairing an at-home breast pump with a smaller, more portable one she can take with her to work.

4. Formula

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How a mother chooses to feed her new baby is her choice, and whether she chooses to breastfeed or formula feed, it can get costly. Once you know what formula her baby is taking, consider helping her stock up with at least six months of formula or more. She’ll be grateful knowing her friends have come together to help her ease the financial strain that can occasionally come with having a new mouth to feed at home, and to free up some of that time she’d spend making late-night grocery store runs.

5. A spa day

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It’s no secret: being a new parent can be exhausting. It’s difficult for new moms to ask for a break sometimes…so don’t wait for them to ask! Go simple by booking her a mani-pedi, or go bigger by booking her a bigger package consisting of a massage, facial, or wellness package.

6. Wine

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Once the baby is in bed, even new moms deserve a little wine-down time: especially after nine long, wine-free months. One of our favorite proprietors of incredible wines and champagnes is Fat Cork. Consider getting her a Fat Cork subscription, so every other month, she’ll know her cabinet is stocked with some high-end relaxation from her loving community. As a new mom myself, this is a gift on the list of gifts new moms want.

7. A pro-photo shoot

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Professional photography isn’t cheap, so don’t be surprised if the new mom is a little skittish to ask for a dream photo shoot of her new baby. The gift of professional photography is a gift that truly keeps on giving. Many professional photographers also offer print and canvas packages, or even keepsake albums.

8. House cleaning or doula services

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If she’s been shy about inviting you over to visit the new baby, maybe it’s because it’s been hard to find time to tidy up in recent weeks? Help her take a load off: invite friends and family to pitch in and get her a few weeks of house cleaning services or doula services. Doulas in particular are incredible support systems for new moms, helping her with breastfeeding, calming her in stressful moments, or even just keeping an eye on the baby for a bit while she takes a nap. Fewer items on Mom’s to-do list mean more precious, worry-free time she can spend bonding with her little one.

9. Meal delivery

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If you live in a major metro area, it’s likely that there are several businesses who do weekly meal deliveries, but meal subscription services are also great gifts for new moms. Meal delivery services are a great way to keep the new mom feeling energized and well-nourished while giving her extra time resting and connecting with her baby.  PLUS this is way easier to do than the traditional meal train of lasagna.  A great gift idea for gifts new moms want.

10. A break

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Perhaps the most difficult thing for a new mom to ask for is simply a break. Whether that’s 30 baby-free minutes for a quiet walk around the neighborhood, or an evening out with her friends, it’s a challenge for any new parent to admit: “I love my baby, but I just need a minute.” It’s easy—and free—to offer the new mom a short break. The next time you’re visiting, consider offering to keep an eye on the baby while Mom takes a short nap, a walk, or a relaxing bath. When it comes to parenting, every re-energizing moment counts.

These gifts can be given to the new mom in your life right now by creating a campaign on GiftStarter. Contact the Concierge today, and let us help you create an unforgettable giving experience. 

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